the loud bitch

Had a convo on MSN with a close friend the other day...
Me=pink font
friend=blue font

"Hey, boring la, what are doing now?"
"Nothing lo.. LOL What are u doing?"
"Nothing, that's why i'm bored."
"Then what do u feel like doing?"
"Have sex." *in a non-chalant way*

silence for a moment...and his response was...

"Wah, u really so desperate meh?"

0.O

Men. Men. Men.
The thing about men is, they find a girl being outspoken with her views n opinion as a threat somehow. What's wrong with being vocal and out about what u really want? even when it comes to things that certain people deemed as TABOO, like sex.

So what? Now men can openly discuss about the size n shape of a woman's boobs and how many women he'd like to or probably did with, and women can't? Fuck whoever who thinks so.

And to those womenfolk who thinks that they are subjected to present themselves as the fairer, or shall i say "WEAKER" sex, do not, i repeat, DO NOT DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED BY THE REST OF US. The rest of whom who stand up for themselves and never allow themselves to the submission of this patriarchy society.

Oh well, I'm just saying what came across my mind at that point of the moment, just like how u guys would do when a hot chick crosses ur path. And it is not like i would do it that point of the moment, same like how u would never had the balls to walk up and say hi to the girl. So yeah, that's my point.

And to the norm, men having sex is similar to validating their social status like it's the most normal thing, "the man thing" u say?
While women on the other hand, are called degradatory names like slut n bitch, and DESPERATE?


My question is, WHAT IS THE NORM? WHO DECIDES IT?
Men? Why men?
Then where do men come from?
This is a chicken and egg situation, but to know your own rights can be a lot better to the society. There will be less abuse, less rape, less bullying and discrimination.

Which i would like to relate not too long ago when i was out with my two favourite sisters in the world, SueYenn n SueLynn. We were out shopping.
Then there's this middle-eastern family (how would i know? The mother was wearing a burqa) came into the show shop we were in. They had two kids, a young girl about 5 or 6 years old, and a son about 3 yrs.

Somehow, the elder little girl kinda made the younger brother cry. Well, kids ma.. sure got bickering and pushing around, that's why they are KIDS.

Then this is the part where u go WHAT THE FUCK??? The father, a fat, ugly, hairy, towering and obese man who is 300 times the size of the young girl, walked over her, without even finding out why the brother cry....

...he SLAPPED and PULLED the FIVE YEAR OLD girl's HAIR!!!!
With his fat pudgy filthy hands!!!

U might wanna ask wat did the mother do? She shook her head with disapproval AT HER FIVE YEAR OLD CHILD, AND FUCKING WALKED AWAY.

I SWEAR, i saw the poor little girl kinda like flew n got off-balance with that blow of a slap.
Seriously, i wonder did that motherfucking son-of-suicidebombers REALLY gave birth to that poor girl. At that point, i almost went over n scoop her into my arms. FUCKING SHIT.

I was so angry i just burst out in the shop and said "WHY THE FUCK DID U GIVE BIRTH TO HER WHEN ALL U WANNA DO IS TO BEAT HER? IS IT BECAUSE SHE HAS A VAGINA THAT IS NEVER GOOD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR KID?"

That mother-fucker left by dragging the weeping lil girl off.

Fucking twisted middle-eastern, makes me think thats how they treat their women. If i were that kid, i'd become a twisted suicide-bomber due to all that twisted discrimination. Seriously, what did she do to deserve such treatment at such young age??

I'm so so blessed that my parents loved me unconditionally regardless of gender or any other reasons in the world. They loved me because i'm their daughter. And i'm thankful, if i'm allowed to choose my parents, i'd still choose my mama and pa, WITH NO ABSOLUTE DOUBT AT ALL.

I think if i'm not pursuing performing arts, i'd be a child or women's rights activist. SERIOUSLY.

And in this one post i've used the word SERIOUSLY, like about 4 times already. Seriously. (which further makes it 5)

WHOOT~ imma so heated up by this thing, i can go on n on with this if my sleepy eye permits me too.

To conclude, i'm not the kind of girl who would sit around and wait for men to ask me to dance, or simply just wait around. If i like someone, i'd go ahead and tell them. Life is too short to be waiting around, and i see no point of waiting aimlessly. Simply because i'm responsible for my own happiness. But that also does not mean that i'd go for any type of men laaa.... hahaha What i'm saying is, there's nothing wrong in being able to speak your mind and be bold about it. U are in charge of your life and no one else.

If u'd like a conversation on this, i'm up for an intellectual debate :)

Well, on the other hand, it's holidays now! YAY!!! Anybody wanna go for a hot date?

kthxbye

til then.